How To Gain Absolute Power In Your Life

Giving excuses is one of the most common ways to give up the power to control your life. Do you sometimes feel like you have no control over your life? Things just happen out of your control and you just feel down?

There are many instances and moments that you wish they did not happen in your life, but, this is life, thus, anything can happen.

In this article, I would like to share with you a very powerful principle that you can apply into your life to gain absolute power and take charge of your life again. You might know about this principle in your life, it will be great if you can read this post to the end and refresh your mind about this powerful principle again.

If you want to be in the position of power, it means that you want to change whatever that is not working in your life. If you are living miserably now, it means that you are not in control of your life, you do not have the power to take charge.

For most people, having the power to control their lives is something that is only possible for the minority who were born in the position of power such as business acumen, exceptional talent or lady luck. This is not true at all. In fact, anyone can have the absolute power to control their lives if they want to.

So what is this secret to having absolute power?

The Secret Is Absolute Responsibility

Yes, whenever you take responsibility for whatever happens, it means that you acknowledge that you are the one who is creating the results and the outcomes. And if you are the one who created it, you can then have the power to change it.
Let me give you some clear examples here so that you can have a better understanding. If you take responsibility for your low pay, it means that you actually acknowledge that it is your action and decision that led to your low pay. It may be that you are not creating enough value for your company so that your boss will pay you more, or maybe you are not demonstrating your value to your boss, or it is because you are choosing to work in a company that does not value your worth.

Whatever the issues may be, you must take full responsibility in order to make a change. And when you understand that it is your own decision and action that produces the result that you do not want, you will have the power to change the result by making different decision and acted upon it.

What happen to most people are that they did not take responsibility for their lives and the majority of them will give excuses or blame others. It is fine if you give excuses or blame others once in a while. Everyone makes excuses and gives blame sometimes. However, if you do this consistently, you will never get the successful life that you always desire.

Giving excuses and blaming others will never put you in charge. When the economy is bad and your business is not moving, if you blame the economy, guess what, you will never make any change and the situation will stay the same. On the other hand, if you take the responsibility by making different decision and strategies to grow your business, do you think things will change? The answer is highly likely. There is no guarantee, but if you change your action, you will definitely get different results.

It is just like one plus one. If you keep on adding one with one, you will always get two. If you change the number, such as adding one with three, you will get four, which is a different outcome. This is a common sense, but most people are trapped in it and they never make any changes in their lives. That is why most people are living the same way for so many years. They get trapped in the rat race and are getting nowhere.

Taking full responsibility does not mean that you have to blame yourself. It simply means that you understand that you are the one who is in control and you are the one who created the results. And if you are in charge, then you can change the direction and produce different results.

Well, if your children are rebellious and are not listening to what you say, take the responsibility that you are not communicating well with them. If your students did not do well in the exams, take the responsibility for the way of your teachings that are not efficient. If your staffs are not producing enough value, take the responsibility that you have not tapped into their passion.

Now, you understand how to take absolute power, make sure you understand this as well…

For Things To Change, You Must First Change

Things will never change because of you, you must change in order for things to change. Think about it, if you want to grow your business, but you are not changing any of your strategy, you will keep on getting the same old results. This is why innovation is so important.

If you continue to do the things the same way, guess what will happen? You will be getting the same old outcomes all the time. If you want to change your life, start by changing yourself.

If you want to attract the best staff, you need to first be the best boss. After all, if you are not the best boss, why did the best employee wants to work for you? Therefore, as you can see it now, for things to change, we must first change.

If you want to have a perfect wife, then be the perfect husband. If you want to have high income, add the greatest value to your company and your clients. If you want to attract the best customers, be the best company in your field.

This is how all the extraordinary people did it and it is the one of the most powerful principles of success that you can never miss. Without this powerful principle, you will never produce the results that you are looking for.

So make sure you apply and use this principle in your life throughout the day. Things will change, simply because you have changed.