I came up with this post idea not to create any debate or
controversy. It is just my own perception and my view with life and
success. It may be different in place that you live. However, for me,
there are 3 hard facts that you must accept in life and this is how you
are able to master your life and create the success that you want.
Like what we all know, life can be something simple or it can be something complicated.
It all depends on how you look at it. Some people just want to live a
simple life. They just want to make some money, enough to live by and to
relax and enjoy. While some people would like to live big and achieve
big. Well, there is no right or wrong here, it is just what you want out
of your life.
The most important thing is that you must know what you want.
If you want to live a simple and ordinary life, you can have it. And if
you want to live big and achieve a lot in your life, you can have it as
well.
No matter which path you choose, here are the 3 hard facts that you
must accept. If you do not accept them, you will never going to get
through in your life. Stop being led by life, instead, you master your
life and create the future that you want.
1. Hard Fact #1 – Life Can Be Hard
Hey, nobody says that life is easy. Some people are born in a rich
family and thus, they have better education, more capital, hence, easier
for them to start a business. I learned this principle from one of the
articles written about Bill Gates.
If you read through all the biographies of the extraordinary people
out there, you will discover that they all spent a lot of time and
effort to build their business and career. They sacrifice a lot in order to pursue and achieve what they want. Yes, it is not something easy, it is something hard.
This is why there is only a few portion of all the people out there
are successful. If success is something easy, I bet you will be living
the great life that you desire already. Unfortunately, it is not
something easy.
Do not worry though, the good news is that because it is hard for
most people and only a small percentage of people actually accomplish
great results in life, as long as you are committed to achieve what you
want, you can be extraordinary. Don’t get what I mean? Just think about
it as the competition in the market.
If the competition in the market is low, it is easy for you to
dominate the market. Just like in life. If it is hard for people to
achieve great success, it simply means that the competition is low.
Therefore, all you need to be is to be more hard working and tend to be slightly different than the rest.
Always remember this, when you are down or when your business is not
doing well, you are not the only one that is going through the
situation. In fact, there are many others who have gone through the
similar or even worse than you, but still they are able to turn it
around and make a comeback.
If they can do this, so can you. Just make sure that you are well
prepared because sometimes, life can be hard. And that is what makes
your goals worth pursuing. It is because your goal is difficult to
achieve that you want to achieve them. Just like if you set your goal to
become world number in any sport, or build a worldwide brand name, or
to set foot in the moon. You set it because it is difficult not because
it is easy to accomplish!
2. Hard Fact #2 – Life Can Be Unfair
Yes, life can be unfair. Like what I said above. Some people are born
in rich families and they do not have to fight for capital to start
their own business. Some parents send their children to world-class
college to get the best education. Some people do not even have to work
because they are rich enough and they can survive without working for
their life time.
I know that if you are reading this right now, life can seems unfair
to you. You cannot blame anyone if you are not born in the rich family.
There is nobody for you to blame. Thus, what you can do is to take
charge of your own life and make it better.
Sometimes when you think about it, you will feel great because you
are the one who creates your own life and you are who you are right now.
You are reading this article because you have the burning desire for change and improvement in your life. Those rich kids will never read this article and even if they do, they will never understand what I’m saying here.
You see, sometimes life does not provide you physical support such as
money and education, but it provides you with something even better,
your desire to succeed in life. Without the desire for change and
success, you will never amount to any great results in life.
So if you think that your life is unfair compare with your friends, think about it twice. God never makes junks. You are here for a reason and you live for a purpose. So learn through the experience that life presents to you and you will become the next extraordinary guy.
3. Hard Fact #3 – You Are The Master Of Your Life
You have a choice right now, to agree with what I’m telling you or
you can choose to disagree. If you disagree, you can get away or you can
leave your comment below. What I want to tell you is that you always
have a choice.
And it is the choice that you make in your life that makes you who
you are today. No matter how hard life can be or how unfair it may seem,
you are still the master of your own life. You can and you have the
power to change. If you do not like your work, you can stop, quit and
get the one that you love. Nobody forces you to stay. Do not tell me
that you have a lot of commitments, you have family to feed, and you
have to pay for your monthly rental or car loan.
There is always a choice for you.
You are responsible for your own life. You are the one who is living
your life and thus, you have the power to control it. What happen with
most people is that they are afraid to change because they have been
living in their comfort zone.
If you want to make your life great, you must learn to make your comfort zone bigger.
Do not be afraid of doing something that you are not used to. Do
something different and you will get different experience and
references. This is what will change your perspective.
I believe if you can accept these 3 hard facts here and live in
harmony with them, you will have no problem living the life that you
desire. I hope you enjoy this article and if you have any thoughts that
you would like to share, simply leave your comments below.
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